Our laughter blended along with everyone else in the cinema watching the movie with us, I took a deep breath after I had just laughed my eyes out. Sitting here with the ones that are most special to me, the ones that my world truly revolves around.
A Happy Birthday to this silly girl, Pelumi who I've know since I was just a little girl of 7, its surprising how we've not lost touch yet. She's so blunt and open in her ways, like a transparent glass. She'd never intentionally hurt me, infact willing to go lengths to make me happy. The awesomest girl I'll prolly ever know :)... I looked over at her at my far right and smiled!

Sitted inbetween us is Carter, he calls himself Loony One, the craziness in my life, he's the solid one in my life, taking the role of mum, dad, brother, best friend and even confidant, he's also the critic of my life... He's never missed any aspect of my life,  practically growing up together for 9yrs now, Carter is a nigga I'd do anything for, I'm even guessing he has a secret crush on me :D its intriguing cause I Love him a lot! He's the kinda guy I'd like to spend my life with, one time he asked me, why are you so stupid? He gets angry at me and says mean stuff but I know he doesn't really mean any of it... Its funny I know but he's my life long friend!

This dude I'm gonna talk about is my chilling sexy almost drop dead gorgeous friend Temilade, I've known this nigga the shortest(going on 3yrs now) but damn he's a bombshell that dropped into my life at the right moment. He's a genius, superb personality and very very honest to a fault, I love him crazily and he's the friend that would say Hey, face your studies! You have disappointed me... And I'd be all sad and gloomy till he explained what I've done wrong and how to make it right :)

My sister is crazy, there are two sides to FiFi, the very cool, calm and collected one and the crazy yet cool side! We're often mistaken for twins cause she's growing too fast and I wonder why, Sighh... FiFi is hawt and she knows her way around a lot of things considering she has me for an elder sister *wink*... She's brainy yet a serious boy magnet, you know I used to think she wasn't even interested in guys, guess I was wrong. My mind switched back to the movie...

I smiled because I realised how blessed I am to have such craziness around me. The beauty of friendship is when you can be honest with each other and still laugh about stupid things... This is my very own family without blood!
If you have friends like this, cherish and keep them... And if you don't well I guess you'll never know what it means to have real friends :)!

It feels good to know that people want to know stuff about the opposite sex, most people don’t just know who to ask or how to ask. So I decided to take it upon myself to find out how players roll.. Sigh it’s not a simple process trust me but I’ve not decided who’s smoother, the ladies or the guys. When I asked a few people this question, “How do players make their move?, I found out that guys have categorised the girls into groups, we have;


*The Novice (JJC)

*The Real good girls (Omo pastor)

*The Bad girls (Igboro)

*The Wannabes

• So playing these different groups takes different ways, for the novice, guys act all sweet, nice and caring just to get what they want. This category of girls are the naive ones, guys will take u to the movies, then out for a drink. And then on the third date they’ll kiss the girl and still be the first to withdraw while apologising profusely for kissing her. That way they’ve earned her trust, on the babes first visit to the guys house, they will kiss and smooch but when the girl is starting to like it the guy will pull away and tell her she’s irresistible and he doesn’t want to disrespect her, the guy will beg for forgiveness and the girl will be so touched she will fall. The next time she goes to see him, he’s gonna STRIKE!

• The real good girls are the hardest to play because it takes a really long time and apart from acting all nice and caring the guy has to sometimes go as far as joining her church or mosque and even meeting her parents just to make the girl trust him enough to drop. Some even promise marriage seff!

• The bad girls will drop only if they want to; these ones have played the game for a long time. They know what they want and guys can hardly play them because they are players themselves.

• And then, we have the wannabes whom guys don’t spend a lot of time and money on, it’s all about sweet talking them, telling them how good they look and shit. Giving them attention is all they desire, especially if you’re a fine boy. That’s why when the guys stay away for a while they miss him ’cos they’re already fond of him. This is considered to be the point of desperation when the guy can ask ‘em to do anything and they will. Tbh these are the cheapest girls if the guy plays his cards right.

           I’m not trying to encourage players, neither am I trying to create doubts in anyone’s mind. No matter how careful you think you are, boys are smart, girls can be smarter.

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