A guy tweeted “what do girls really want from guys?” And I just
thought why don’t we ask the ladies what they really want…
I carried out a research and I’m going to list the top 10
things a girl wants from a guy:
- Presentable guys: every girl wants a guy that’s presentable, someone she can show off to the world and be proud of, that is well dressed, that has a good command of English and a good body build. So guys better get to work.
- . Girls want someone that loves them, who adores them, I’m not saying you should worship the babe, but even if you don’t have money and you shower the girl with love she’s gonna stick by you no matter what.
- As much as this will surprise you guys, the ladies want a God-fearing guy, the fear of God is the beginning of wisdom. If you are a God-fearing guy whether Christian or muslim, you’re gonna attract that girl you’ve been trying to get.
- Next thing is ambition, most guys nowadays don’t have a plan for their future, girls admire a guy that is ambitious and knows where he is going in life. A guy that doesn’t plan on doing big boy with ‘daddy’s money’ all his life.
- Now this is something that a lot of guys nowadays are lacking and that is respect, most guys don’t respect their girls; they talk anyhow to them going as far as denting their feelings. Girls are very special creatures so if you don’t respect them they tend to get hurt easily. Be proud of your girl no matter the situation.
- I know a lot of girls are going to like this next point but it’s absolutely true, yes girls want a guy that is spontaneous, a guy that will pass by a store and think to buy his girl something special. She doesn’t have to ask you before you get her stuff, its little things like this that matter.
- I mentioned that girls are fragile, so they need special care. Always pay special attention to your girl, make sure she’s okay and she doesn’t need anything. Don’t ever get over protective because it’s gonna freak her out. Pick up your phone and just send a message that’s going to make her happy.
- This one is also quite important, girls want a guy that will make them happy. Some girls can actually afford to stay alone but loneliness is a killer. A girl is not gonna stay with you if all you do is cause her pain and sadness. Cuddle with her, joke together, laugh at people together and hold her when she feels down. Just make sure you give her a reason to blush when your name comes up.
- Girls want a guy that’s honest, don’t lie to a girl and feel good about it. The truth hurts fine but if you say the truth she’s always going to respect that about you. And this always affects trust matters; don’t give her reason to doubt you or your love.
- Finally, be a responsible guy. Be ready to take responsibility for your actions, don’t cheat, be ready to say sorry always and humble yourself guys, don’t let your ego rule your actions and speech.
Leave your comments on whether you agree or not, or if there’s
anything I left out.
